One of the most interesting conversations I had been with this Tanzanian chap and a really close girlfriend of mine about how to spice up sex. A lot of guys complain about how women just lie there, spread eagled waiting for ecstasy to hit, while the guy gets a major work out. women complain that they never really get off, that men are a little too selfish. The fault lies with both parties. Lack of communication, and self-confidence are largely the problems. Another thing is perfecting a template…that one move you pull out each time, but not every person is the same and sex tends to gate stale/monotonous if there isn’t something new injected into it. One easy way to add the extra something to your intimate moments is by trying different position may be what you need to do. But one thing you need to remember with any position is that you need to take time to find a rhythm and pace that suits both of you and take time to enjoy simple being in your partner’s embrace and not rushing to the finish line.
The Linguini: Lie on your side, putting a pillow under your head for extra support. Your man kneels directly behind your behind, leaning ever-so-slightly over your body. He should push one of his knees between your legs, positioning his body so he can penetrate you. He places one hand on your back to help support himself as he goes for the plunge. This position allows for greater friction for your partner, and allows him to go deeper. He can also tease your clitoris to give you a more heighten experience.
The seated scissors: A woman tends to have more control over her pleasure when she’s on top. So this is an alternative to the regular cow-girl. Have your partner lie on his back, knees bent, straddle him with one leg between his legs and the either by his hip. Help him in and move at the speed and angle that feels most pleasurable to you.
Well doing this you can form a ring with your thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis, then pull down so the skin on the shaft is taut. This exposes more nerve endings and increases the penis’ sensitivity.
The Man-trap: Lie down on your back and have your partner lie on top of you, have him penetrate you and then wrap your legs around his. (your ankles on the inner side of the lower half of his legs). He can either do regular thrust or slowly rotate as he thrusts. Arch slightly to receive each thrust. This position allows you to control the speed, and allows the most physical contact so you can really enjoy each other. It’s one way to make missionary a little less ordinary.
The Shoulder Holder: Lie back with a pillow to support your head, legs straight up in the air, ankles together. Have your partner kneel in front of you, grip your legs and put them over his shoulder and slip in.
Modification of this is the T-square turn your legs to one side, remaining at a right angle, and have him penetrate. To form a T-shape.
The Right Angle: Lie on your back with your behind at the edge of the bed or table. Have your partner enter you and he can thrust or move in a circular motion, with your legs wrapped around him. Squeeze your pelvis floor muscles if you can for extra pleasure. This is a position that you can do spontaneously on the kitchen counter top, or an adventurous romp in the office.
The Y Curve: Lie face down on the bed, then move your body forward so your head and torso hang over the side, your palms on the floor supporting your weight. Have your man positions himself over her and enter from behind, his legs inside yours. He can hold on to your hips for leverage to allow him to keep his head and shoulders raised high.
The Lotus: You need to be a little flexible for this one. Have your partner sit cross-legged and you sit on him with your legs wrapped around his waist. He can help you move your hips, and his mouth is free to nuzzle your breasts.
The Dirty Dangle: Start off missionary style, and when you’re both close to climax, inch toward the edge of the bed until your head, shoulders, and arms hang backward over the side. The blood will rush to your head, so you can experience erotic inversion, and send tingles to your upper body that will turn your climax into an otherworldly experience. But don’t stay in this position too long, you don’t want to pass out.
Modify each style to suit you and think of sex like a dance between two people, each person moving in tandem with the other, enjoying each dip and twirl until climax. Also, find positions that your both comfortable with.
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