This is a question that get’s asked a lot: Does [penis] size matter? The responses are varied, but with women one thing is clear, we’re more concerned about what a man can do with his member than how long or thick it is. Men are more inclined to think that the smaller their penis, the less chances they have with women. It’s almost as if penis size is directly proportional to level of confidence.
Younger men, and some who are much older, seem to think that having a bigger member means they’ll be better at satisfying women. While it does give you an added advantage, there’s more to great sex than a large package. If you ask a woman to choose between larger-than-average size with below-average skills and average size with above-average skills, she’ll probably choose Skill over Size.
Look at it this way, take your favorite soccer or basketball player, they have the right physical requirements but are biceps and height all that make them good at what they do? Actual skill to be able to expertly use your physical tools matters.
So satisfaction (y) is directly proportional to skill (x) with your penis size (k) being the constant of proportionality:
y = kx
According to Medical News Today the average size of a male penis in different states is as follows:
- Flaccid lengths ranged around 7 to 10 centimeters (2.8 to 3.9 inches)
- Flaccid circumferences ranged around 9 to 10 centimeters (3.5 to 3.9 inches)
- Erect lengths ranged around 12 to 16 centimeters (4.7 to 6.3 inches)
- Erect circumference (only one previous study) was around 12 centimeters (4.7 inches).
Now, most women don’t focus on actual size, and have other things on their mind than whipping out a ruler and measuring you. (if you know what I mean), so don’t over think it.
Another way to look at it is if you’ve ever used your fingers to tickle her, didn’t she enjoy herself? How much smaller are your fingers compared to an average penis. If you know what to tease, tickle and rough up, and when, then you’ll increase your x value and subsequently the overall y value no matter how big your member is. Learn a few tricks, ask her what she likes and don’t be afraid to get a little kinky.
Also, you need to remember, personality and how you approach and treat a woman is key. She needs to be attracted to your mind as well as your body, so don’t think just because you’re hung like a silver back gorilla that you don’t need to put any actual effort into your overall presentation. One other thing you need to keep in mind is that different people have different preferences, so don’t think on general terms.
You can’t do much about your size, but your skill and how you present yourself overall are things you can definitely work on. So STOP obsessing, size isn’t everything.